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Wednesday, October 21, 2009

The Life of Maria Liva

My Great Grandma, Maria Liva, passed away yesterday at the age of 99. Every year on her birthday she would count out how many years til she was going to turn 100. She was so proud of her age! She laughed and joked about how she couldn't believe she was turning 9x years old each time. She loved birthday meals, getting her picture taken and having birthday cake. Even on her 99th birthday she managed to blow her candles out!

Just a few days before her passing, my son found a Monarch Butterfly. The butterfly looked as if it was dying. I explained to him how they live very short lives and he must be too cold to survive any longer. So he scooped him up into a box and brought him into the house to warm him in his room. He then said to me "it's not fair that people can live to 99 or 100, if they grow up all the way, and butterflies don't get to live more than a few weeks." I know that it was on his mind that people live that long because as a 5th generation to my great grandma, he knows first hand!

The next night I had a dream about my great grandma. It was so strange actually... she had somehow left the nursing home and went to the old farm house I lived in as a child. That farm house is no longer standing in West Chester, but the memory of it is in my dreams often. The EMT's brought her out of the house and she was smiling, she looked 10 years younger, her skin was smooth and radiant and every hair on her head was in perfect formation. She looked up at me and said hello Sarah, I told her how beautiful she was and then I woke up. I cried when I woke up, because for the last year or more, she hasn't remembered who I am. She had forgotten my name and that I was her first great grandchild and Isaac was her first and only Great Great Grandchild. I told my grandma (Nonna) the next day about the dream and we both almost cried. It was almost as if it was a sign that she was about to be with God and be back to her beauty.

My Great Grandma used to love to tell stories about her life in Europe. She lived there during the first world war. She used to tell me about how they lived on snails and dandelions for a time. Or how she had and her sister had a paper route, but they had to cross a field with land mines in it. She told me that twice bombs were dropped down their chimney! As a young teenager she worked in Venice, Italy as a maid. She remembers the city for much more than the romance we think of it... but she complains about how dirty it was!

One thing I loved most about her was her honesty. She was a strong and opinionated women. Even though I was raised Catholic and have since gone to a different denomination, she never had a problem speaking up about how my son needed to be baptised! I can still hear her watching over Isaac as a toddler saying "watch him" in her heavy Italian accent, she always worried he would fall and get hurt.

Another thing I loved was that she loved it when people ate! She loved watching people eat, she loved eating! Nothing made her more proud than to see a child eat a big meal. :-) She also loved her red wine! Must be key to living to the age of 99. Pasta and wine!

Grandma worked for many years for a priest in Cincinnati. She cooked for him. She never drove a car. She lived alone until just a few years ago when she fell and broke her hip. She had 2 daughters (Teresa and Mary), 5 grandchildren (Kathie, Rick, Terri, Jenny & Cynthia), 7 great grandchildren (Sarah, Zach, Chelsea, Tyler, Emily, Connor & Thomas), 5 step great grandchildren (Shane, Amanda, Brittney, Kelsey & Cameron), 1 great great grandchild (Isaac) and 3 step great great grandchildren (Chelsea, Brady and Savannah).

Our family suffered a great loss of an amazing lady... but through us, her memory will survive. We love you Grandma!
So MANGE! (eat)




Thursday, September 10, 2009

Where is our patriotism?

Let me start off with saying… I am livid! I am ashamed of some of my fellow citizens right now and I am embarrassed of what has become of our educational system! I chose to send my 8 year old son to a Christian school because I thought they were above being politically correct or showing blatant disregard for patriotism. This of course paired with the smaller class sizes and above average education they provide. But, the small classes sizes and good education only go so far if they are unwilling to give students what is valuable in this country and that is the ability to participate in our democracy.

In recent months many political topics have come up surrounding Barack Obama. His approval rating has fallen. However, I chose to look deeper into this. I feel that with the overwhelming vote that elected him, not all those people voted for the right reasons. Some voted for him simply because he would make history by being the first black president. Some voted against him solely because of his skin color. Neither of these reasons are good reasons to vote if the voters don’t stay involved and educated as to what becomes of the man in office. President Obama came out with BIG ideas. He campaigned for the presidency with those BIG ideas. Now that he is trying his hardest to implement these BIG ideas he is being ridiculed and seeing a decline in his rating. Part of me can’t help but feel no matter how great he is, he will always have the fact that he is a black man with these ideas and some people won’t agree with him no matter what because of that fact. Of course the opposition has their legitimate reasons for not liking him that have nothing to do with race... I am just speculating on some factors.

I don’t know of any other president that has been called a liar by a congressman in the middle of a speech. President Obama is a man that can’t be torn down! He knows what he believes in, and believe me… he has been called worse! We aren’t talking about sticks and stones and comments yelled out by some no-body on a street speech… we are talking about another elected individual in our government. Even when we don’t agree with policies in government, to attack the facts and call them lies is outright rude.

Which brings me back to my introduction… my son’s school chose to not air President Obama’s speech the other day. This came after much controversy and parents all across the nation threatening to pull their child out of school that day if the school did air it. My message to those schools is… grow some balls. What about all the parents, like myself that believe that the president wouldn’t spew propaganda or political agenda to children and have enough common sense to recognize that to be true? Maybe my son should have stayed home that day because his school decided to NOT air it. Had there not been controversy on the man giving the speech would it have aired with no questions asked? If he had been a white man would it have aired with no questions asked? If he were a republican would it have been aired with no questions asked? Here is a link to the speech… you and your children should watch it… I promise it won’t bite! :-) http://www.whitehouse.gov/video/President-Obamas-Message-for-Americas-Students/

I am disappointed in our educators for not being able to take a stance above the controversy and agree to show the short message no matter what. In 1991 President Bush address the youth of our country. In a very similar manner as Obama, he entered a school and had live broadcasting so that all schools could tune in. He spent a great deal of money advertising, by sending letters to all public schools urging them to watch that day/time. Some people protested that this was a misuse of government funds, but they weren’t threatening to pull their children from the schools if they aired it. That’s absurd! As a student in the 90’s I can remember watching President Clinton talk to students in schools. It made me feel important, and like I mattered in a world where normally adults have all the say so. In 1988 President Reagan spoke to the schools. His speech did touch on taxes and other political subject. Yet, he was not banned from the airways of schools. He was thought to be so charismatic and since he was famous we just rode along with his ideas, never mind if they didn’t work. President George W. Bush also found his way into schools throughout his presidency. Some during school hours, some were not. The city I live in, Hamilton, Ohio was the place that the “No Child Left Behind Act” was signed and applauded in a Hamilton public school. That very same school would not allow Obama’s speech to be played live. http://www.journal-news.com/news/hamilton-news/presidents-address-to-students-stirs-controversy-279785.html

So, I ask… if these men were given the opportunity to be unsupervised, uncensored, and unleashed to the children of the nation, then why was President Obama not given that same opportunity? His speech barely differed from the text of Bush Senior’s speech! Obama’s and Bush Sr. messages were clearly about kids staying in school and owing themselves the opportunity to achieve their goals and get an education… what propaganda is there to be had in that? And why would anyone think that political agenda was ever going to be included in the message?

Last night I overheard the principal of my son’s school talking to another parent. I can’t be certain what the course of the conversation was, but I did hear his response. It was something along the lines of “If the speech had been published before hand I may have shown it, but NO ONE talks to MY kids without telling me first what they are going to say.” I believe he wanted that statement to be true… but I believe the agenda was more to be found in him NOT showing it than what was believed to be a possible agenda from the President. I am disappointed and hurt by his decision and my son should have stayed home to watch it live instead of finding it on the internet later that night. Oh, FYI, the speech was released before the live viewing… maybe the principal missed that???? http://www.factcheck.org/2009/09/obamas-speech-to-schools/ If you find yourself asking if the speech was rewritten, look at this link.

In my opinion and thus far what President Obama has done with his first 8 months of presidency has far exceed the good done in the 8 years of W’s. Below is an excerpt from an interview with him today responding to Wilson shouting “you lie!” during his address at The Hill. He shows true class and level headedness!

Asked if he accepts Wilson's apology, Obama responded:

Yes, I do. I'm a big believer that we all make mistakes. He apologized quickly and without equivocation, and I'm appreciative of that.

I do think that, as I said last night, we have to get to the point where we can have a conversation about big, important issues that matter to the American people without vitriol, without name-calling, without the assumption of the worst in other people's motives ....

Our goals are generally the same, whether we're Democrats or Republicans, and in fact, most Americans don't even think about those labels all that much. They are turned off when they see people using wild accusations, false claims, name-calling, sharply ideological approaches to solve problems. They want pragmatism; they want people to stay focused on the job. And I hope that some of the fever breaks a little bit.

The media can always be helpful by not giving all the attention to the loudest or shrillest voices, and try to stay a little bit more focused on the issues at hand.

http://www.factcheck.org/2009/08/seven-falsehoods-about-health-care/ Info on the bill.

Our democracy must be not only the envy of the world but the engine of our own renewal. There is nothing wrong with America that cannot be cured by what is right with America. ~ President Bill Clinton

Monday, August 17, 2009

Photos from our PJ Headquarters Tour

We had an amazing time last week in Lousiville, KY visiting the Papa John's headquarters. We toured the offices, met with a lot of my marketing contacts, got to see dough production (soooo cool) got to see print product (also sooooo cool) and met John Schnatter (Papa John). He came out of a meeting just to introduce himself to us and he was nice enough to sign a football for Isaac as well as his hat. Totally made our day!

John told us to go to his office so Isaac could look around and get a picture back there. This is Isaac infront of John's desk looking at a replica of his personal jet.
25th Anniversary wine and whiskey in John's office. I thought it was awesome!

The hat John signed for Isaac... he was wearing it.

The original dough mixer in John's first restaurant.

A cake they had in the employee restaurant... they were having a bake sale.

The new camero hat and tshirt on an auction table.
The pool table that was in John's uncles pub where his first restaurant was located. He and his uncle made the light themselves. Cool!

The headquarters has it's own street.

Friday, July 24, 2009

My husband is so smart!

Joe was asked to write a review of the, soon to be released, Windows 7 for a technology publication... he has posted his review on his blog. It will be published soon. Keep an eye on his blog for up to date technology news.

Joe's Tech Times

Saturday, July 11, 2009

What's in the water?

Seriously, I currently know at least 11 gals that are pregnant! Another half dozen or more than have given birth recently and I am sure it's not over yet.
So just a heads up to you ladies... I may need to steal your babies every now and then. If it's not in God's plan to give Joe and I a baby of our own, I want you all to know I can be a fine Aunty. :-) I am so happy for all of you and the joy your babies will give you!

Thank you God for my beautiful son, Isaac (now 7.5 years old)!

Wednesday, July 1, 2009

Our Wedding Album

Here is the album of our wedding (5/16/08) we designed for our parents, but since we have yet to print it for them or create our own album yet, I thought I'd post it.

It begins with the cover images... the left image is the back cover and the right images is the front cover. Then follow along with page 1-30.

Photography by Amy Rebecca in Hocking Hills, Ohio.













Tuesday, June 16, 2009

Have a Blessed Day...

... is what she told me as she exited my car with her daughter.

I woke up this morning feeling crummy like I always do, expecting the day to be routinely boring and hoping it was at least better than yesterday. Isaac however, surprisingly woke early and got himself ready and was in a cheerful mood. The morning was moving along nicely, despite the fact that I had to fish an entire roll of toilet paper out of the toilet thanks to him... ew! Isaac was excited for a field trip his daycare class was taking to some water park in town.

Running only slightly behind and starting to finally get some energy, we headed out the door to school. My iPhone was beeping as new emails started to come in along with the morning light. Work had begun... After dropping off Isaac and embarrassing him with a kiss to the forehead I headed back to my car and started to pull out of the lot, when one of the emails caught my attention and I decided to respond. A friendly looking lady and her daughter walked along the sidewalk and I waved them on since I am not ready to exit the lot. I saw out of the corner of my eye that after walking past my car, they turned around and walked over to my car... she asked me "which direction are you headed?". I pointed to the right and say "that way". She smiled and said, "will you be going past the court house?" I respond, "yes, do you need a ride?". She smiled extra big and accepted my offer.

In the car we chatted about Kings Island and how the girl riding in my back seat had ridden Diamondback, the newest coaster. We talked about the Raptor roller coaster in kiddy land and a show on roller coasters they had recently seen. The mother and I reminisced about some of the rides that we once enjoyed at Kings Island... like the potato sack slide race, the corvettes and the animal tour tram.

We arrived at her destination and I told her to have a great day and it was nice to meet them, she thanked me and wished me a "blessed day"... I thought it was nice and even though it was MY act of kindness to her, she gave me more in return with those words.


"Too often we underestimate the power of a touch, a smile, a kind word, a listening ear, an honest compliment, or the smallest act of caring, all of which have the potential to turn a life around." ~Leo Buscaglia

Monday, June 15, 2009

Getting started

Welcome!


I currently live in Hamilton, Ohio in a small cape cod house that fits our needs just fine. I am married to a wonderful man, Joe and have a brilliant and handsome son, Isaac. 4 rodents, I mean cats... as well a pet squirrel, Rainier. I am destined to be that old women with a house full of cats if Joe dies before me.

I am a free lance photographer that shoots weddings, but prefers shooting landscapes and wildlife.
My husband has been a great partner in photography... even if he did start out shooting with a Nikon. :-P It's a pleasure working together doing something we both love when we are hired for a wedding! If you are interested in seeing more of our work, visit http://www.paintingwithlightphotography.com/

In the last year I have been on a roller coaster of medical mysteries. With no help from myself, many of these problems went undiagnosed for years... come to find out you must first see a Doctor before getting a diagnosis. I have been battling an array of endocrine disorders and have yet to find the answers to them all. The biggest of all these problems has left us battling infertility for awhile. This is what has prompted me to create a blog.

I am sure the blog will not solely consist of infertility and adoption, but will include my photography, my thoughts for the book that I am outlining about step families as well as odds and ends.

Stay tuned... I hope you enjoy.